AI + moderators

AI-assisted. Human-approved.

MAWADDAH uses a compatibility engine to help identify suitable profiles across religious values, personality, family expectations, lifestyle, life goals, preferences, and dealbreakers. These suggestions are neversent directly to users. They are first reviewed by trusted human moderators.

1. AI suggests

Profiles are compared on dīn, values, family expectations, personality, location, lifestyle, and stated dealbreakers.

2. Moderators review

A trusted moderator reads both sides, checks compatibility and seriousness, and decides whether to forward the suggestion.

3. You receive only approved introductions

No catalogue. No browsing. Only considered, mutually-relevant introductions arrive in your inbox.

What the AI is — and what it is not

It is a structured compatibility tool that reads the data you submitted.
It is not a chatbot. AI never messages another user on your behalf.
It does not replace istikhārah, family consultation, or your own judgement.
It cannot introduce you to anyone — only a moderator can.

What the AI looks at

Practising level, school of thought, prayer & lifestyle

Marriage expectations and timeline

Family expectations and walī involvement

Personality and conflict style

Education, work, language, location

Children: existing and desired

Stated dealbreakers — strictly respected

Compatibility of life goals

Your data, your boundaries

Sensitive fields are optional and access-controlled. AI processing happens on profile data you submitted — never on private family conversations or call content, because MAWADDAH does not host messaging or calling between candidates. Your data is never sold, never shared with advertisers, and never exposed publicly.

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The 100-point compatibility model

Each suggestion is scored out of 100 across eight categories. Hard dealbreakers are checked before scoring — a profile with absolute dealbreaker conflicts is not surfaced unless a senior moderator manually overrides.

Religious compatibility

/20

Practising level, prayer, fasting, Qurʾān, madhhab alignment.

Personality & emotional fit

/18

Temperament, conflict style, communication, energy levels.

Marriage goals & expectations

/15

Timeline, household roles, family vision, polygyny views.

Lifestyle compatibility

/12

Daily rhythm, hijra plans, social outings, hobbies.

Family & cultural compatibility

/10

Family expectations, cultural background, living arrangement.

Practical suitability

/10

Location, relocation willingness, finances, children.

Preference match

/10

How well each side matches the other's stated preferences.

Completeness & risk adjustment

How thorough each profile is — incomplete profiles score lower.

Sample AI output (moderator-only)

Illustrative

Score

87 / 100

Recommendation

Strong — moderator review

Confidence

High

Strengths

· Similar religious outlook
· Compatible family expectations
· Similar timeline for marriage
· No major dealbreaker conflict

Possible concerns

· Clarify relocation
· Clarify living arrangement expectations
· Clarify timeline for children

Moderator questions

· Is separate accommodation required immediately?
· How involved should both families be before contact?
· Are both timelines aligned?

Scores are a tool for moderators — not a public rating of any human being.

What moderators can do with an AI suggestion

Open the full AI explanation behind a score
Compare two profiles side by side
Generate suggested moderator questions
Flag specific concerns or red flags
Request more information from either side before approving
Approve, reject, or replace with a manual match
Add private moderator notes (audit-logged)
Decide which specific fields each side will see